We all know our own love situation

I have never liked it when those who have found love try to equate their situation to yours. Just because you found it doesn't mean all will.

I have no intentions of finding love...I have a very very good control on that, and have no reason to fear the possibility of being in love and being loved back. I do not see it happening at all.

But, there is two ways to look at love...there is the realistic way and the unrealistic way.

Unrealistically, one could look at love in the way that everyone will find it, that there is someone for everyone out there. One can say to themselves, they just haven't found "the one" yet.

Realistically, one would look at their own record in love to determine their future in it. If you are in your 20s and you have never found love and no guy pays you any attention, then you would know more than someone who has been in love, about your own situation. You know very well that your future is bleak and that there is no use in being hopeful.

Usually one is never wrong about the future of the situation they are in...only in rare cases is one wrong.